Evil Bitches

Lesson of the Day,

So here is what I’ve leaned today;


Girls can be really really evil conniving bitches. Some girls will say and do anything to get what they want. Yes we all know that guys can be fucking assholes and heartless bastards, but most of them are so god damn stupid and ignorant that they don’t realize they are being assholes. Girls on the other hand are evil and malicious on purpose, they plan their evil schemes. I can be evil but not to the extent that some of these girls go to. For example some women think that a baby will bring couples closer but if he doesn’t love you now he never will. They trick these poor guys into getting them pregnant. If I ever trick a poor bastard with getting me pregnant it will not be to get him to stay or because it will make him want to be with me. Yes I will trick him because I will want a baby and then ditch the poor fucker, cuz all I would ever want and need from him is his sperm to get me a wonderful baby. Lol I know that’s crazy but that’s my point. Woman are crazy but the thing is that we all plan this shit but in the end most of it back fires on them. I knew woman were evil but did not realize it till I heard some crazy stories. Today I learned most girls probably will or most likely have cheated on their boyfriends! Second a woman knows what kind of man could be manipulated and how, and trust me she will learn how to do it. She will also find some power over you and use it against you all the time. I've planed out evil schemes and the've worked! but never something too exteme. Well I’m gonna stop there cuz I don’t want to give too much away but yeah I think I have been too nice! I need to step up by bitch game! Lol That’s all I’ve got for today, or better said that’s all I’ll say today cuz definitely there is a lot on my mind that needs to be let out before I explode Lol. xoxox



Weezy

Memorial Day

"Is love a tender thing? It is too rough, Too rude, too boist'rous; and it pricks like thorn."

I’ve been trying to write something all day but it seems I’ve lost all inspiration. Weekend was ok, went to one too many bbq’s. Ate way too much, and finally got that ice cream that I wanted. I spent way too much money, I had a fight, I cried, and lost all hope. I’m exited I have the whole week off but it seems like I will not enjoy it as much as I thought I would! Everyday I expect way too much and everyday my expectation fall short. You would think I would have learn by now, but I guess I just never learn. I will try and accept thing rather that convince the world otherwise. Just a little down today, no particular reason just same old shit as always. As it is Memorial Day, lets take a minute to remember and be thankful for all the troops, heroes, and fallen angels. Let’s be thankful for all that we have not sad for all the things we don’t. Time goes by too quickly and next thing you know you don’t realize how time just flew by. Well that’s all I have the strength for . Tomorrow is a new day, lets see how it all unravels. Wishing everyone Joy, Love & Happiness.

Keeping it Short & Sweet,

Weezy!

P.S. I hope John & Kate work it out, seems like everyone just lost hope on love lately. What ever happened to In sickness and in health, in poverty or in wealth, 'til death do us part? Its like one bad thing and everyone is just calling it quits! What a shame! Anyway hope they work it out!
　
“Good night, good night! parting is such sweet sorrow, That I shall say good night till it be morrow.”

Blog Virgin

Well, I've decided to take the plunge and pop my own blog cherry! Honestly I don't even know what to write about. I come up with some topics every now and then but I never commit to writing it, I guess somehow I'm scared to write, like its something very intimate and I would be exposed for the world to see, and judge. Gosh, I don't even keep a journal or diary, I just find it hard to write my thoughts down . . . So this is my first attempt: Speaking of cherries, do you remember your first time? Was it with someone special or just someone you barely knew? Did you plan it or did it just happen? Was it what you thought it would be or were you surprised? My first time happened in the spring a few years ago, with someone I cared about and thought it wasn't really planned and honestly not as smooth or as enjoyable as I'd hope. I think we were both so nervous that it was over before we knew we had done it. We pent most of the night 'fooling round' I guess you would say, pleasuring each other in many ways without going 'all the way'. Tenderly caressing and speaking softly while we rested in between, (we usually 'made love' for hours, never rushed) and it was finally at the break of dawn, and our last round for the night, that we 'just knew' and went all the way. I remember how it felt to have my body exposed to someone else, to have them so close their skin was my skin and his heat match mine and the exhilaration of our bodies building momentum that was barely in sync and was over quickly, (more for him than me) and it hurt of course from not being able to relax, but it felt good to finally experience that delicious melding of bodies and souls. Although it was memorable I would only rate the sexual experience part of it as ok. Don't get me wrong, but every other time after that was exponentially better than the last. It is as though our bodies were made to pleasure each other. The sad thing about this, is not that we are no longer together, but that no one has been able to match the levels of pleasure I experienced with my first! My second simply had no clue, the third and my only ONS had been around the block, but still had a few miles to go, and my forth was very HOT and dirty but lacked soul. So I wonder, was I just spoiled with my first, or is sex better when you really know the person you're with? For me sex should be 50% of a relationship and the other 50% everything else. I guess sex is important to me, not just the physical enjoyment, but the deep connection you can developed with someone through it.

P.S. Was this TMI for my first blog lol? First rule of writing is to write what you know and what you're passionate about. But if I have offended anyone . . . you just don't know what you're missing lol !

*~Ms. Afterglow ~*

Remember When Part II

Mood: Sleepy

Currently listening to: Put It On Me by Ja Rule ft Lil Mo

Back By Popular Demand……

I have so many memories good and bad that I’m thankful for. They define who I am today and what I love about life. They also remind me what I love most about my family and friends. Some of my favorite memories are those of “forbidden” ones too, because the more I remember the harder it is to forger. I want to be able to look back and not only remember the bad but the good as well. Everyone has there own version on how things were supposed to be, but look back at your life and you’ll see that the best things were always the most unpredictable, the mistakes, the misunderstandings and the “wrong” things. Things Happen for a reason. So till I no longer want what I could never have and embrace the truth, I shall blog.

• I think all of my really close friends that come to my house a lot have probably seen my mom naked
  
• Going bowling in providence and having Phil completely beat everyone every single time!(Lets not include the my drunk bowling incident, I’m still trying to forget that night!)
  
• My sister’s obsession with the X-Files
  
• When we went to see The Texas Chain Saw Massacre and Dar creeped up behind me and Jessica and scared the hell out of us
  
• Me, Bobby & Veronica walked out of a restaurant without paying
  
• Janice spilling acrylic powder on the rug, not once, not twice but three times
  
• “Cuidado Piso Mojado” “For Why” “The Cat is on Fire-El Gato Esta en Fuego” “Tu mami Es Muy Gorda”
• All of my Indecent Exposures!
  
• Me & Jessica tying to hit on dirty Mexican’s on Bergenline
  
• I couldn’t stop crying after I saw Broke Back Mountain
  
• When I pushed Eli off my bed
  
• When me, Jessica & Dar walked into the men’s bathroom at the movies and we were like “why is there a guy in here”
• All those fire alarm in South Hall at 2am
  
• Dar’s brother always putting his finger up my nose
  
• Tati’s long ass stories
  
• “Between me and you i wanna poke u in more than one way. fuck Facebook”
• Lena’s “Hello?” “Hello?” “Hello?
• Me and Jessica stold Dar’s car and took it for a ride
  
• When I thought I lost my phone but all that time it was under my bed
  
• Maurizio's cooking
  
• When I was late for chemistry I told Mr. Monahan I was hit by a car
  
• Pump It Up - Joe Budden
  
• “I Don’t Give a Fuck”
  
• Being in Little Shop of Horror's
  
• Having Dinner at Hosp
  
• Game Nights
  
• My Brother telling Dar she curses too much
  
• When Lena thought someone cut her hair
  
• Always having money to eat chinese food at lunch time
  
• Seems like senior year in high school there was always a party on the weekend and we were always getting drunk
  

Ok that's all I could remember for right now! I'm too tired to keep going! I'll write part III some other time! lol

Good Night & Sweet Dreams!

Special Comment on a Special Request: **Nelson was not my best kiss he was my most desirable kiss at the time****
Besides the all around “Best Lover” title has a different owner all together!

Weezy xoxo

Remember When?

Mood: Sad
Currently Listening to: It's Been a While - Staind
　
Some of my Favorite Memories,

• When Phil completely saran wrapped me in Sam’s Club and wouldn’t take it off the whole night. He took me to Walmart were the manager asked if it was a “Sorority” prank, then to Shaw’s were he told the cashier I was his adopted sister and had to be wrapped like that cuz I was crazy, then finally back to the dorms.
  
  
• Our High School “Cuban” Club! Olbidate! Azzuucaarrr! Cuba Libre! Lol
  
  
• Jessica’s “I GOT IT”
  
  
• When I told Maurizio I was pregnant
  
  
• “ Coca-Cola Hot Jam”
  
  
• My birthday dinner at the Cheesecake Factory junior year in college! We were like 25 people or more!
  


• Making Janice laugh so hard milk came out of her nose!
  


• Me going to Pathmark 1000000 times a day just to go see my boo NELSON! Lol (So far he’s been my best kiss)
  
  
• When Dar locked her car keys inside the back seat of her car & my dad was trying to get them out.
  


• Our Halloween Party
  


• “We are gonna do what the girls in the back always do, We gonna chill”
  
  
• Watching The Notebook with Darryl
  


• “Just Put it in my butt, my mother fucking butt”
  


• Brickways on Wickenden, East Side Pocket, Antonio’s Pizza.
  


• Our Spring Break Puerto Rico trip (having to drag our luggage across the park like 100 times) (oh and when my grandma told Anthony he needed to work out cuz he was too skinny)
  


• Going skinny dipping in Carmen’s pool
  
  
• Our Family’s Florida trip (Our DR trip was awesome too)
  


• Playing match maker with Phil & Jackie! And with Bob & Veronica
  


• “Sweater”
  


• Jessica’s “TELL ME WHY”
  


• “I Fucking Love Starbucks”
  


• Watching porn with Phil and all my roommates in Phil’s room and having Maurizio walk in with Chocolate fudge!
  


• Our High School Connecticut trip!
  


• “Beef Curtains”
  


• The JWU Wahooooooo
  


• “F7” (Dar that one is for you! Typing class)
  


• My sister walking right into a glass door in DR
  


• “Prank calling” Juan and having him call back cuz I didn’t block my number
  


• Dar getting mad drunk at china club and losing her shoes, falling, and trying to eat a pretzel off the street.
  


• “Liquor 43” “Thug Passion” “Malibu Pineapple” “Abuelita” Taking 12 Shots of Patron in one night!
  


• LETSSS GOOOOO……..(My & Phil’s Song)
  


• “Enrique” & “Fernando”
  


• Getting drunk on Mojitos in Havana Central
  


• “ OMG Luisa his dick was soooo small” lmao
  


• When Anthony & I got yelled at in class for laughing. ( In the same class me and Anthony fighting for the attention of Josh (We had the only crush on him) lol
  


• Paula’s stalker at the Grand Lux
  


• “You don’t know me bitch”
  
  
• Sitting in the Rec Room in South Hall
  


• My obsession with Michael Jackson, Christina Aguilera & Dawson’s Creek
  


• Breaking it down with Ashley to Footloose
  


• Having the girls drive up to Providence for my graduation(except Tati of course)
  


• Drunk dancing in Dar’s couch
  


• “Did you just call me Fat?”
  


• Visiting Eli in Boston
  


• Visiting Tati at Rutgers! ( although she never came to visit me at college! That hoe!) lol
  


• Singing Karaoke in Florida
  


• Banana King
  


• Sergio’s parties
  


• Making “Sex” noises with Chris
  


• Webster Hall
  


• Easter at AJ’s house
  


• A creepy guy kept holding my hand and asked me to marry him in Gonzalez & Gonzalez
  


• Our trips to the comedy club
  


• Our trips to BLVD East and our “talk to remember”
  


• Going to get Spanish food in Broad St.
  


• Breaking night talking to Deb at the front desk in South Hall
  


• “I Learned From the Best, I learned from Youuuuu.”
  


• “Bacalao”
  


• My Sister & Janice’s Obsession with Highlander & the Spice Girls
  


• Prom drama, the club & Seaside
  


• “Oh Shit Son, That’s my JAM!”

My Most Embarrassing Moment: Having my roommate walk in on me while having sex.

There were just too many to keep goin! But that's all for now! More to come later!

Weezy! xoxoxoxo

Love, Sex & Magic

Talk dirty to me….
　
Lets Talk about Sex! For some, sex is a science and for others is an art. There is so much we could talk about; stimulation of desire, types of embraces, caressing and kisses, biting, using your nails and or teeth, positions, slapping, moaning, oral sex, and don’t forget the big O! We could talk about our first time, how great or bad it could be. How you like it and of course, how it should be…….. Ok lets face it people there is nothing wrong with a little bump 'n grind if you know what I’m saying…. With the right person it could be magical. You hear it & See it everywhere. We all probably think about it minimum 13847357292028273654537292 times a day(or maybe that‘s just me) lol! Women love sex. In fact, some women think about it just as often, if not more, then guys. We fantasize constantly and at great length with great detail. We watch porn and we go to those little shops to buy little outfits(Just got a pink & black one) & toys (I’m a proud owner of a purple one! Lol) We probably get just as horny as the next guy.
We all have our preferences, how we like to start it off, the ride in between and of course the climax.
My kind of sex starts with a little playfulness(some teasing if you will) follow by full on foreplay. It can’t be lacking in passion or creativity either. He needs to make me feel sexy & comfortable cuz lets face it most women are a little self conscious when we are naked. That’s the time were we feel most vulnerable as well(at least for me). He needs to have that je ne sais quoi! He needs to pay attention to detail cuz that’s what matter most. Most women I know prefer all that stuff before the sex (the teasing of the breasts and and the licking of the nipples with your tongue, the fingering, the dirty talk, the role playing…. ect) for most of us intercourse doesn’t always do it.
He just needs to know how to take care of me! He needs to shut the hell up and just go down and eat it!(oh shit did I just say that out loud?) lol Hmmmm yeah like I was saying if he takes care of me than I’ll def return the favor! Lol

There is nothing wrong with a little sex here and there, but the best kind of sex is when you make love to someone you care about, and the worst is when you're trying to fill a void! Just remember to keep it safe kids! USE PROTECTION! lol
Sorry kids if I’m being too graphic but lets face it we all love it and cant get enough of it! Lol Anyway I wont bore you with too much info but my point was to start a conversation, a war or a civilized talk on sex. So lets Coffee Talk and share with us some of your sexual fantasies! Feel free to post some of your favorite, best and worst sex experience. Favorite positions, weirdest and most embarrassing stories you got. You share with me & I’ll share with you!

That’s all for now! I gotta go find some new batteries! Lol j/k! Or Am I?? wwwwwahahahahha

Till next time,
Your biggest temptation, and deepest desires! ;o)~ Your’s Truly, Weezy baby! Lol

P.S. I’m kind of shy, but I would like to work on is my dirty talking skills! I feel like and idiot when I try to do it! Lol (any tips?)
　
A survey by Marie Claire and Esquire magazines found that men prefer rear entry sex (doggy style), while women prefer the missionary position.

Friendship

Ok so I really didn’t have an interest to write again. I feel like people take my blog too literally or just misinterpret my words. I write what’s on my mind with no intention to hurt or judge anyone. Anyway this morning I wake up and start snooping around people’s pages and what not, so I came a cross this girls blog. She’s not really a friend just someone I went to college with and she’s just another face in the crowd to me. Anyway I was reading her blog and she happened to have a good point on friendship. What really constitute someone as a friend? An acquaintance? Or a BFF? Recently there has been these huge craze with Myspace and Facebook with people adding you and becoming your “friend”. Call me crazy but look at all your friends on Myspace and Facebook and ask yourself how many of those 300 people are really your friends? How many of them do you call often or trust? I recently had a girl request me as a friend but I honestly never really got to know her. I saw her in Pathmark and she totally pass by me and never said a word to me. I was like so why the fuck are we friends on Myspace??? Hmmm idk I thought that was interesting. It seems to be ok to add all these people as friends but some of them you probably never even had a conversation with. I guess is more like the more “friends” it seems you have the more popular you are? To me those people are probably the loneliest. I’m sure you’ll meet so many people thru out your life but only a hand full if you’re lucky will be with you for a lifetime. I’ve learn to try and not hold on too tight, let them go cuz the good one’s will always stay around. You have to stand clear of those fake friends, the one’s that only call you when they need something, or when you feel like the friendship is not mutual. You have to feel like someone is genuinely your friend because they like who you are or how they make you feel. Special friends as well as your significant other take hard work. You will see yourself doing things you don’t want to be doing, having them borrow things you will never see again. Having to compromise and most importantly swallowing your pride and having to say you’re sorry. They will disappear on you, diss you and probably not call you when you want them too. You will probably hate each other at one point, and feel like shit has changed. You will probably fight a bout the same boy/girl. Yes true friends will fight constantly and they will probably tell you shit you don’t want to hear but at the end of the day you know they have your best interest at heart. I’m know to always say the wrong things at the wrong times and for causing trouble too. But as a friend don’t I have the right to speak my mind as well? If something is bothering me don’t I have the right to say something about it, or better yet blog about it? A true friend will always accept and be there no matter how many crazy shit you get into or how many bad decisions you make. Being a true friend is accepting that you are both different, you will have different ideas and believes but at times you have to agree to disagree. Anyway my point is that I’ve never held a gun to someone’s head to be my friend. You are there cuz you want to be not because I’m making you. The door is always open as well, feel free to leave, breakup with me if you will. The same door will always be open if you decide you want to come in. A true friend will always find their way back to your heart no matter what you both been thru or how far the distance has been. I have hundreds of acquaintance, few friends and a hand full of bff’s. I always treasure those who have respect for me, who will do anything for me, who will defend me, and lastly someone who can share a quite moment with me. To be considered a bff not only do you get the best of me(And not for nothing but I can be fucking awsome and fucking halarious too! ;o)~) but you have to accept me at my worst as well(Yes I can get a little emotional and crazy!). You don’t have to be in constant touch with each other but as long as you send me a hi here and there just to let me know you’re thinking of me lets me know you care.


That’s all for now, I guess I was just missing some close and far away friends today.

With Love,

Weezy.

P. S. Boys/Girls have the bad habit of complaining about our “love interest”. He’s an ass, he did this and he did that. She's a cunt, she broke my heart blah blah blah. So as a friend what are we supposed to think? So we immediately judge them too, we think ok they are an ass and you shouldn’t be with him/her. but when you try and judge them too, or try to tell you how bad they are for you then you get mad and think we are being a bad friend. If you don’t want us to judge them then don’t complain about how bad he’s treating you or how fucked up she can be when you go back with them. As a friend we want what’s best for you and we try to give you advise only by what you tell us.


Sooo Tell me again, That we'll be Lovers and Friends, Sometime I wanna be your lover, Sometime I wanna be your friend……… (lol sorry this song just came to mind while I was finishing this blog! Lol)

What Would You Do?

Ok so you find out you have only a few years to live, who knows maybe months. So what now? What would you do differently? Would you go hide under a rock and feel sorry for yourself??? Quit your job?? Would you gather the courage to tell that one person how you really feel about them? Send everyone a letter telling them how much you love them??

My Bucket List (Top 10 Things I want before I die):

1. I feel so left behind these days. I'm 25 and by now i thought i would be married with at least 5 kids and maybe even be divorced! But Yeah before I die I would like to get married. I want the whole "White" Princess dress, and that whole "Fairy Tale" wedding with that whole happily ever after b.s. (If I only have months to live maybe I'll just pay someone to marry me! no? Oh well just a thought! lol)

2. I would like to go to Italy or maybe just take a long ass vacation overseas and explore. Maybe even set foot on each of the seven continents. I want to try and experience new things within each place I visit.

3. Experience a threesome. (This will be my husband's day before the wedding gift!) lol

4. I would like to throw a huge party and invite every one of my friends. Everyone I care about.

5. Passionately make love to someone & have someone passionately make love to me! ;o)~ ( WoW Is it me or is it getting hot in here? )

6. Eat everything and anything I want without feeling guilty.

7. Fall deeply in love -- helplessly and unconditionally. I want to experience that crazy little thing called Love! (Hmmm this should be coming from both sides, cuz i've done the one sided love thing and it doesn't work!) lol

8. Go Sailing

9. Win the lottery even if I don’t get to keep the money, I just want to know how it feels to win it! lol

10. Be in a movie (Maybe have Vin Diesel play my lover! That would be awesome! Fuck that this is now my # 1! lol)

This bucket list was really hard to write. It’s hard to think of non material things you want that will bring you happiness. Anyway this is just a short list of things I would like to do before I die!


Another set of Confessions (Usher has nothing on me) lol:

1. I wish every single person who smokes deliberately everyday would get cancer. Just like women who get hit by their b/f or husband. If you stay with him, then yes you deserved that shit. lol some people should get what they deserve, what goes around comes around.

2. I'm a masochist! Deep down I feel like maybe I enjoy the pain. I always go back for more! ;o)~ ( I hope my husband is aggressive! I need a man that can put me in my place, Smack me up a little if you know what I'm saying! Fuck nice guys, they are just boring!) lol

3. I used to wish you the same pain you bestowed upon me, but deep down i never wanted to see you hurt. I would take all your pain away if I could.

4. I still feel angry at myself for being so stupid. (but like I said in #1 everyone gets what they deserve, maybe this is what I get after all)

5. You are not the only person I hated and thru under a bus, But just like our friendship fell apart and then back together so did hers and mine. You just took a lot longer.

Ok this is all I got for today! (My manager just totally read this! He now thinks i'm weird! lol but that's what he gets for being nosy!) lol

Stay tooned bitches till next time!

Weezy! xoxo

P.S. Dont give up on love people. You will find it when its right! Takes 10000 wrong tries to finally find "The One"

Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus,

Men and women are different, we think, we act, and we feel different about certain things. We wanted equality in the cense that we do not want to be looked down upon but looked as capable as men to do great things. Men have a greater physical strength and women can be more reliable, practical and logical. Which brings me to the point about how we both think so differently. Lets start with Sex. Most men feel like they have to fuck the whole world to feel like they are “MEN” Or to gain experience! Because the more you do it the better you are at it! Practice makes perfect right??? The more women you sleep with the better lover you are. Now lets apply this to a women, if she has the need to sleep around to gain “experience” well that girl is nothing but a hoe! Right? Most girl don’t have the need to fuck the whole neighborhood to “gain experience”. We are also more likely to sleep with someone because we have feelings for them not because we are horny. Now lets take “Friends with benefits” for example. For men this a person who is a “Friend” which the call upon to have sex or whatever, a booty call per say, same for a girl I guess. Ok so here is the difference. If a girl is sleeping with a guy and she finds out he has “feelings” for her when she doesn’t then she will break it off. If a guy knows a girl has feeling for him he really doesn’t give a fuck, he will keep fucking her and her best friend and everyone else he calls “friends with benefit” As long as he’s getting ass he doesn’t care who he hurts. A girl will usually have a booty call or a “friend with benefits” while a guy will have like five or six. See a girl thinks before she acts, usually probably over thinks things. A girl is thinking if he’s sleeping with me then he must have some kind of “Attraction” to me, but a guy will fuck anything that walks, he will fuck you then think about how wrong it was after, and will probably just keep on doing it. See most guys swear the are so “Real” and they tell the truth right??? Well they usually tell a lie before he fucks you then he tells u the truth right after. Like “I just want to make love to you” then when he’s done fucking you he’ll probably tell you some bull shit story. Like I said before you can’t make love to someone you don’t love, but if it gets her in bed with you then its ok to say it, as long as you clarify it after then it makes it ok. I guess the “Attraction” gets the best out of guys right?? Anything to get them ass, no matter who wrong it is. Girls just have to move on and get over it, and over them. Men always have some “great love” or some “ex-girlfriend” that they’ll never forget or shut up about. Oh but whatever you do, don’t tell him to get over it or over her! Lol oh boy! DRAMA! Lol You see guys claim they love this girl but why where you fucking me and ten different other women?? Guys always realize you lost a good one once they are gone. And a girl might not know how much better it could be. You will never find happiness unless you find happiness within what you already have. I’m just trying to speak My truth.

Over and Out.

Here are my top 5 confessions:

1. I never told you the whole truth because you never told me the whole truth. You have no idea what was said between us. We made a pact that day. (Like you’re not the only one she calls, at one point we thought it was a good idea for two enemies to unite. But I used her for my advantage cuz I could never hurt you, but I also never told you after I knew you will never have the same courtesy with me)

2. I never took that pill….

3. You’re indifference and lack of respect for me hurts more then your ignorance.

4. After all is said and done I will never look at you the same way.

5. I will not tell anyone, because I will not fight it, I don’t need your judgment.

There is sooo much more I wish I said and wish I had the courage to say those things still left to say.
　
Till next time,

Weezy Baby.

Word of the Day: SUPPORT

One thing that I’ve noticed in this fast-paced society of ours is that not many people are willing to help or support one another. This applies to many things: holding doors for people, giving the elderly or pregnant women seats, even people who purposely cut others in front of lines. Our society lacks support and I think that’s one of the reasons why we are all in this crippling mess financial mess. In the land where selfishness rules, we are always waiting for someone else to do the giving, and we never feel like we should get our hands dirty. I’ve had people shove their way into a subway car without giving anyone the courtesy to get out first. You get the same people who constantly help over and over again and and the same other people just stand there with their hand out, or waiting for someone else to come and save the day, making the scales of giving and receiving uneven.

Not only is this egocentric behavior prevalent in the outside society, but this conduct seeps into our homes straight to the heart of our own families. Siblings not willing to help one another, couples who constantly fight about cleaning or money, and no one compromising. We’ve all turned our backs on one another and instead of giving a helping hand, we are more concerned about how we can help ourselves.
I’m not saying to become a saint, but instead of selfishly concentrating on our own agendas, we should all take a look outward and find different ways of extending ourselves in an altruistic way.

-sk