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Friday, March 6, 2009

asking for too much or not getting enough?


why is it so hard for two people to be on the same page at the same time? how often do two people feel exactly the same about each other? i wonder how good it must feel to love someone so much and know that they feel the same way- and to know that you'd both do anything for each other. but what about when its not like that? when you're willing to do certain things for someone who wont do the same for you?


and this doesnt only apply to boyfriends.


yesterday, i was feeling like shit and i txted one of my friends saying that i really needed to talk to her, that i was really upset. she said sure bla, bla, but in the end she ditched me to hang out with a "stalker". now this is not the first time it happens- i mean it happens all the time, actually. but why the fuck do i even bother to talk to her? if it were the other way around i would make sure that id be there for her, but is it too much to ask for her to do the same?


why the fuck do i always end up in this position? why cant two people treat each other with mutual respect?




3 comments:

  1. Paula what can I say! Next time call me and I'll be there to listen! But i know how you feel! Sometimes you keep doing the samething expecting a different outcome each time but in the end you always get the same result with certain people, Somethings just never change. I know first hand about people not being on the same page with you but i've leaned that if they really wanted they will be there right with you, you cant force what's not there.
    ~Luisa

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  2. first of all, i love the fact that even though i changed my name to pipicaca, you still knew it was me!!! anyway thanks so much for being there for me Luisa!!

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  3. Ditch the friend. Get new ones.

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